My bestest friend

It is my bestest friend's birthday today. Now, in this time of recession the question is not "what to get for someone who has everything" but "what can I afford?" Go down the checklist: at first the choices seem few. Look again. Think about what your friend really needs - need, not want.

Most of us mostly just need to feel good. And while some may need something of material value to make them feel good, many of us need something of emotional value to make us feel good. Like a good well-wishing, a happy tiding, or a compliment.

The Happy in Happy Birthday

What would a birthday be without the Happy in it?! Just a simple little word. Yet so important. And so easy to share; not just the word but also the meaning. Send a card, send a text, or make a quick call, anything to spread the happiness. And if you're saying Happy Birthday in person, make sure you really mean to say "Happy Birthday." It's a great compliment.

If it is your birthday today I wish you a truly, truly happy birthday!